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"I've had that happen to me a few times too when excitedly talking to my girlfriend about my Z." It's one thing for casual friends and acquaintances to not share our interests. Your significant other is a whole 'nother issue. I'm not saying she should be into Z's. Lots of healthy relationships have partners with different interests. But she should respect your enthusiasm, and take pleasure in knowing that you are doing something YOU enjoy. You should never feel "shot down" or dissed by your S.O. over something you care about. If you do, then that is a big red flag that something is awry in the relationship. Hey, as long as you're working on your Z you aren't chasing other women. My girlfriend's (different girl than one in post) two main comments about my Z are that she needs a crane to get her ass in and out, and that it reminds her of her old boyfriend's Corvette. Clearly, she's not into cars. But she can sense my passion for the car, and she loves seeing me happy over it, and as a fairly harmless hobby. Oh, and she admits she looks good cruising in it ;c)
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